Saturday, February 28, 2009

Friday with the Fishers

I knew I should have stayed in BED!!! Though it did start with Joey holding Julianna in his arms and kissing her head, of course no camera was available before the moment ended. I need to keep a camera with me morning, noon and nite. It was just going to be one of those days. First Charlotte called, Nate was sick, but Danielle said she would teach, so I dropped some paperwork at RBI's for her for some new moms, and everyone else was either sick or there kids were sick so class was canceled.

Then, Mom and I were off to pick up the stuff for Julianna's Baby naming and I almost had to turn around because I could not find the directions, thought I left them at RBI's with the paperwork I left Danielle, turns out I had it in my visor.

We get to the deli and the egg salad we ordered was not there, which in the end was ok, because mom and I thought the guy made it himself and packaged egg salad has filler, YUCK!! Ok the caterers daughter is spoiled. So we went to to the store and bought eggs to do it ourselves.

Then we got to the temple, and I boiled, peeled and made 2 dozen eggs into really good egg salad, plattered cakes, cut bagels and set up the tables for the buffet for Saturday after the service, with feeding breaks for Julianna. Mom made tuna salad, plattered the whitefish salad, lox, veggies and made lots of flavored cream cheese. It took us 4 hours and we were exhausted, but I was not paying the caterer to do what we knew we could do, if only dad the caterer had flown in earlier, to that in a bit. Mom did a better job then I did, but it was fun doing it with her, nexst time we go to my places for food not the temples recommendation.

Then we went home, where my friend JC and Brother Keith and his wife Melissa were already at the house. I promised mom I would not fight with him, but after 5 minutes "The Bikerson's" my nickname for them, were driving me nuts. They Made Joey crazy, spun him around after he ate that he threw up, but she had to clean it up!!! and she almost dropped Julianna, she is banned from holding my kids.

After dinner I drove in the rain to get my dad whose flight was late, even though it said early when I left the house. IT is a good thing, I know where the legal seafood is, I parked in there lot and Feed Julianna. Joey went too, he wanted papa and left all the way to the airport but woke while I was stopped. Papa called and the 2 minutes to the airport, he was papa, papa and when papa got in the car he clammed up. IT was funny, then he slept all the way home and went right to bed, good thing he was in his PJ's.

Then we had my early b-day cake, chocolate strawberry shortcake. I only have 4 pounds to lose to get to prebaby weight then onto the next 20, good thing this cake is gone, one piece is "a moment on the lips a lifetime on my hips!" My sister-in-law was commenting on my glasses being dusty, could be she took the juice glasses from the top that have not been used in 2 years instead of the glasses on the bottom shelf we use everyday. Good thing I was off to the train station to pick up my other brother Brain, who made me laugh. I need a lot of wine after the bickerson's leave, good thing they are staying at a hotel and only here til Sunday. Brian and I stayted up and chatted just like we did in our apartment after college until Scott made us all go to bed.

I love having the company here and love entertaining, but they drive me to drink, literally, if I was not breastfeeding I would have cracked a bottle last night, but not up for pump and dump. Maybe next week after they are gone the girls will get together for a glass or too.

Ok I think I bitched enough. Off to get dressed for temple. Hopefully the rest of the weekend will be better than yesterday and pray it does not snow so my brother and his wife can fly out, if they get snowed in I will cry!!!

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Hair cut

So I joined the haircut Revolution, no more buns or ponytails, I chopped it off this morning. I now curls again and is not dead!!!!

It is off my neck so I won't complain at StrollerFit and the girl did a great job, even better I made the appointment yesterday not knowing she had a special today and the cut cost me $12 plus a tip. What a deal!!!

Want to thank Charlotte and Danielle for doing a great job teaching for ma and to tell my SF moms keep up the great work.

I have the info on the first 5 K I am going to participate in and the training will start as soon as the Dr says so. Let me know if you want the registration info and if you want me to create a training plan for you. I am already working on one for Danielle and Charlotte has agreed to do the Tufts 10K with me in the fall post her baby, so I am creating the 10K training plan for us for her too. I can not wait to train for these. I hate running a lone but with the girls and kids it is always run. Charlotte and I did 2 5K's last year and we had a ball together.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OK I am glad I have this blog, I need a place to rant.........I ask you ladies, how come we can multitask with the child(ren) and they can not.

OK, so Joey was sick from wed night til Sunday night and all he wanted was Daddy, even at 3 am when he woke coughing and Scott was great with him, but you could see he was frustrated and nothing else could get done because he Joey would yell Daddy, daddy if he left the room and Scott would come running and everything else was forgotten.

So I did laundry Saturday and asked him to bring it up, I got one basket up before Joey freaked and the others came up with Scott after I asked 4 more times. Then he ran the dish washer last night and I had washed sheets, I said this am, you fold the sheets and put them in the linen closet and I'll put the dishes away. He looks at me and says, "we always fold the sheets together, how am I to fold them without you and with Joey by my side" I replied "how did you fold them 7 years ago, before we moved in together and let Joey play on the floor while you work, how do you think I do it?"

I went upstairs to find the sheets folded and put in the closet, but the pillowcases and few other items were still in a pile on the bed, but he and Joey were playing in Joey's room.

Don't get me wrong, he is a great father and husband, but like all men, he can't multitask and he gets sidetracked so easily. I do get sidetracked but come on.

The icing was he ran the dryer with Joeys stuffed animals that he slept with while sick, twice and they were still wet, so he ran them again and never cleaned the vent, and left the dry items in the dryer, when i went to check it, I asked why and he said "You need to leave the dry stuff to help dry the wet stuff and I forgot to clean the bear fuzz from the vent, opps" No wonder it was not dry. I took the dry stuff out and put the remaining wet stuff in with the load of laundry that was finished in the washer hrs before, thank god it was just Joey's sheets and clothing and wow it was amazing, 45 minutes it was all dry, must be mommy magic.

OK so I am done complaining and tomorrow is a new day, but I am blogging, feeding Julianna and planning my surprise for SF's MMS class tomorrow, 3 things at once, again must be mommy magic. Enough bitchin, time for bed!!!!!

One l;ast thing, please let me know if this is just my husband or as my mom would say "TM-Typical Male."

Monday, February 23, 2009

Julianna's sponge bath with Joey's help...

This am we all went to the Dr's the antibiotic they gave Joey yesterday is helping and by Wed he should no longer contagious so he can go to Mommymuscle sculpt and run around with the other kids while Danielle teaches. He said "Mine" to the Dr when she was picking up Julianna, so I guess he will keep her.

Grandma gave Julianna a sponge bath tonight and Joey helped. It was very funny. I did not get any photos, I was too funny, I laughed so hard I almost cried. He kept trying to hand Julianna toys and kept trying to get Grandma to add bubbles. Then he told Grandma "Baby Mine, Baby Bubbles Pease." It was so funny.

They things they come up with. The years to come will be so interesting.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

I'm cold!!!

for over 6 weeks I wanted the baby out and I wanted the baby out. I was hot all the time even when it was freezing outside and I was uncomfortable.

Since Julianna was born I have been cold, except when I feed her, she is still radiating heat. Last night I said to Scott she could go back in til the cold weather ends. I think I was delirious because she was up every hour feeding and Joey is miserable with his croup.

OK, so I do not want her back inside but I need to warm up, time to unpack my winter clothing.